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Big Brothers Big Sisters
of Southeastern North Carolina
Making a
Big
impact





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What is the screening process for volunteers? (Return to FAQ list)


To become a Big Brother or Big Sister you must start by completing an application from which we obtain information to do a DMV check, background check, and personal and professional reference checks. This is followed up by an interview, a home visit for the Community program, orientation and training.

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What level of commitment is involved? (Return to FAQ list)


Volunteers commit to spending time with their “Little” for at least one full year, though if desired, they can last longer.  The one year can also be shared or divided in half when you participate as a team. After one year an evaluation is done to assess the impact of the relationship. Generally the match continues beyond the one year point. Depending on the match, the Big and Little will meet 4-15 hours per month.

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What types of activities would I do with a child? (Return to FAQ list)


The Big is paired with a child with similar interests, so each “match” (the volunteer and the child) enjoys different activities. For the
Community-based program, activities include going to sporting events and other community events, making crafts, going to a museum or to a movie, fishing, golfing, going to the park, and playing football or basketball.

 

For the Site/School-based  program common activities are playing games, reading, eating lunch, working on homework and just talking.

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How much flexibility would I have in when I see the child? (Return to FAQ list)


For the Community-based  program, when the activity takes place is up to the volunteer and the child. It is not required to meet at the same time every week or to spend the same amount of time together every week.

 

For the Site/School-based  program, the volunteer spends one hour with the child on the same day and at the same time every week, usually only during the school year.

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What kind of support does BBBS give volunteers? (Return to FAQ list)


The Enrollment/Match Coordinator (EMC) personally interviews each volunteer to ensure that they are matched to a child with similar interests. The EMC then helps the volunteer and child get to know each other and come up with a list of activities to do together. The volunteer is trained to know how to work with the child. The EMC makes sure that the match is supported throughout the relationship.  Regular contact is maintained throughout the entire match.

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What is the Waiting List? (Return to FAQ list)


The waiting list consists of children that have applied, been screened and enrolled in our program.  We currently have over 100 children on our waiting list. The majority of those are boys, and they can sometimes wait up to 2 years for a Big Brother. Girls normally wait no longer than 3-6 months for a Big Sister.

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Who does BBBS serve? (Return to FAQ list)


The majority of the children come from single parent homes, but many also live with both parents. We have several children that have a deployed parent, as well as, an increasing number of children that are being raised by grandparents and other relatives. We accept children from all backgrounds between the ages of 5-16.  There is no specialized training required to mentor the children in our program.

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How many children does BBBS serve? (Return to FAQ list)


Our goal is to serve 1,000 children in the four counties that we serve by 2010.

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Why Volunteer? (Return to FAQ list)

 

Kids today face problems we never dreamed of when we were younger. But, hard as it is for some kids, there is help. A Big Brother or Big Sister can act as a mentor and a role model. A “Big” can show a child that, no matter how difficult things get, there is a caring adult friend there for them-someone who will listen with an uncritical ear, who will give advice if asked, and encouragement when needed, and who will help put things into perspective. Ultimately, the guidance of a Big Brother or Big Sister can help a child grow into a confident, competent, and caring individual.

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What is the benefit? (Return to FAQ list)

 

A child’s self-esteem increases when an adult friend genuinely cares. His or her future is broadened by a role model who can be a guide to life’s opportunities, and around life’s obstacles. And for our children, the obstacles are very real. The benefits to the volunteer are: a chance to reconnect with youth, to make a good life even better, and to have a sense of “giving something back.” The feelings of growing and learning are shared by the child and the volunteer. As one volunteer put it, “I joined to make a difference in a child’s life, but sometimes I think I get more out of it than he does.”

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What does a Volunteer do? (Return to FAQ list)

 

A Big Brother or Big Sister can have a major impact on a child’s life, and yet it’s a truly simple process. It just takes some time, a love of life, and a concern for children. A Big Brother or Big Sister is not a substitute parent or a babysitter. Activities are those any friends might share: watching movies, bicycling in the park, sitting and talking, or even just running errands. One volunteer said: “Some of our best times are just talking when we are in the car.” The focus is not on spending money, but on just spending time with the child. Your time can make a positive difference in a child’s life.

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How does it work? (Return to FAQ list)

 

Our service matches children from primarily one-parent households with adult volunteers. The volunteers and the children come form all walks of life and from all types of communities. Prospective volunteers usually commit to at least one to three hours a week for about a year.  Our Bigs are carefully evaluated by agency staff.  Each match is based on the needs of the child and the interests of both the child and the volunteer.   Once a match is made, professional match specialists are there to provide advice and support to help the match grow.

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What do I need to do next to volunteer as a Big? (Return to FAQ list)

 

The first step to becoming a Big Brother or Big Sister is to have a genuine passion to want to help kids.  Next, you complete an application, interview, orientation and training.  

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How do I enroll my child? (Return to FAQ list)

 

To enroll a child as a little, the process is much the same as becoming a volunteer.  The application, interviewing process, orientation, and training must be completed before a child is enrolled.

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What are some of the safety issues? (Return to FAQ list)

 

Our number one priority is the safety of both the child and the volunteer.  That is why we do background and reference checks, intensive interviewing, and training.  We also, monitor the matches by keeping in contact with the mentor and mentee on a regular basis.  We work with the teacher in the site-based program and the parent in the community-based program.

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How do I contact BBBS? (Return to FAQ list)

 

Please call our Main Headquarters at:
252-638-5888 or toll free 1-866-638-5888

Or email us at inquiry@bbbs-senc.org to learn more about Big Brothers Big Sisters.

 

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How do I apply for employment at BBBS of SENC? (Return to FAQ list)

 

Please call our Main Headquarters at:
252-638-5888 or toll free 1-866-638-5888

Or email us at inquiry@bbbs-senc.org to learn more about employment opportunities at Big Brothers Big Sisters. You can also view our press releases for any current job openings.

 

 

 

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